March 22, 2014

Your Greatest Fear In Life.. Is Something That Is Good For You!



“Fear doesn't shut you down; it wakes you up”― Veronica Roth


We all live in fear of something..

Fear of ghosts, spiders, vampires, heights, werewolves, depths, dark, insects, ants,

Fear of ex-girlfriends, ex-boyfriends, ex-lovers, ex-in-laws, current in-laws,

Fear of failure, intimacy, sorrow, calamities, extra work right before you leave office for the day,


Fear of strangers, strangers with weird physical abnormalities, strangers with inappropriate obsession with twilight characters,

Fear of, well, anybody with an inappropriate obsession to do anything with twilight,
(Clearly, I have an aversion to twilight a tad too much!)

Fear of wealth – having too less of it, and if you have some fear of losing all of it,

Fear of thunder,

Fear of lightning,

Fear of your folks finding out the pile of nasty stuff you did in past that they don’t know of yet!

Etc etc..




The list seems to go on forever!!

You always notice a little nervous sneer, breathlessness, cold skin, goose bumps, shivering, hands and feet doing things out of one’s control or a rich shade of red in faces of people whenever they feel they are in harm’s way.

A similar shade of color, expressions and etc symptoms are seen in people when they are exulted, or well, in love.

But neither love nor ecstasy really exists do they?

They are all just things resulting from our hyper-active imagination or by sheer chemical play of hormones.

What makes fear any different from these emotions?

Maybe what we fear the most in life is just another part of our being telling us that there is something going on outside/inside of us that we have to stand up and take notice of.

Maybe it is just another biological alarm-point for us, like getting a fever or wanting to throw up etc.

Only these alarms go off only inside out heads.

And we control our mind to a large extent. So we can very well mold this fear to serve our needs.

Because you see, being fearless is stupid and a blatant lie.

Fear is actually good. It makes you perform better, makes you put your best foot forward.

You think better and clearer when you feel your own butt is at stake!

You see.. Greed for success can make you successful only to an extent, but fear of failure is the thing that drives you all the way to the top!!


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8 comments:

  1. Nice Post Prem and the best thing is its short and concise :)
    The last line is for Keepsake "Greed for success can make you successful only to an extent, but fear of failure is the thing that drives you all the way to the top!!"

    Keep Posting,
    Cheers,
    Jassi

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    1. lol.. you seem to have a fixation with short and concise, J :P
      I usually write long ones only when I actually have something on my mind that wants to jump out, and those are usually the ones I post out here :)
      But you came back here, so I suppose I must be doing something right.. Thanks a ton for those kind words, much appreaciated :D

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  2. The last punch line is quite similar to what i actually follow bro... nice blog :)

    --Nishith

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    1. true that bro, rock on! :P
      thanks a lot for reading, do come back :)

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  3. Made a good read. Fear could be a great leveller too! Try fear to pump up that adrenalin, try it sharpen your senses. A little fear before a challenge actually wakes you up and lets you focus and go for that final dash...

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    1. Thanks, Jij.. And what you said stays true as always, fear is the best coach deserves at least a dozen Drona awards! :)

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  4. There are some who always fear the sky would fall ! And there are some with no fear - they think so long as the mother earth does not fall nothing will go wrong!

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    1. True that, Pa.. Fear is good, keeping one's head clear at such times is better too :)

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